Christmas 2025

This kid got glasses! It was a shocking development where he off-handedly mentioned to the pediatrician at his well-visit that he was having trouble seeing the whiteboard from the back of the room. I had never heard him mention that! He has 20/70 vision and uses his glasses mostly just for school and only to pull out at certain times. I rarely see him put them on at home.

Kari and Jared planned some new Christmas Eve games for us to try this year!

One of our Christmas presents was a family trip to Six Flags! We had a great time.

Our Christmas plan originally was a trip to Universal Studios as our entire Christmas. We planned to use Matt's Christmas bonus to off-set the cost and enjoy one last trip as a family before Caleb started his mission. The trip was booked and paid for with the itinerary of leaving the 23rd and spending the next 3 days at Universal in Florida. However, things started going badly at work for Matt where he was juggling so many balls all on his own and not able to keep it all afloat. His boss called him into the office and told Matt he wasn't working hard enough, being lazy, and thus would not receive his Christmas or year-end bonus. Matt was crushed. He had been overloaded for some time, begging them to hire more help to alleviate his load. They didn't want to spend the money. Matt was drowning putting in so much over-time to try to keep his head above water, and it was taking a toll on him emotionally, mentally, and physically. To be told he wasn't working hard enough and would lose out on his bonuses broke him. He turned in his two week's notice, which would put his ownership of the company at risk, and we canceled our trip fortunately only losing out on $200. He started lining up options for other jobs with the future unknown. His boss refused to accept the two week's notice, however, and this triggered them moving two people over from engineering to help Matt with his responsibilities. After a week, the two engineering men said it was too much work, and they couldn't keep up with their engineering responsibilities and the tasks assigned to alleviate Matt. In the end, they finally hired two new people under Matt that he could delegate responsibilities to. Matt is still not happy at work, but he keeps his head down, avoids his boss when possible and is trying to ride it out to the end and the company sells. 

When we canceled our trip, we then had to scramble to come up with Christmas presents! Caleb was easy as we were already purchasing things for his mission. It became a year of mostly gift cards as presents for everyone else, which felt lame! We also did some new family games; Six Flags was our Universal replacement. 🤣

Stake Adult Religion Education Teacher

After serving 3.5 years in the Stake Primary Presidency, I was released right after we finished our 4th Stake Day Camp (my least favorite part of our responsibilities). The part of my calling I enjoyed most was overseeing Primary music and training the new music leaders and giving them resources to enhance the experience for the children in each ward. Some were more receptive to my help than others, but it was fun for me to be involved. I subbed for Singing Time quite a bit over those years in several wards, especially in one ward in my building. Thus it was a very Sunday-busy calling, which was tough when that overlapped with Matt's 2.5 years in the bishopric.

As I was released, I was extended the call to be a day-time stake adult religion education teacher. I have attended the class in the past but wasn't currently attending due to concern of some things being taught by one teacher in "gray" areas of Church history and a handful of ladies that seemed to relish those discussions. I was nervous to come in as a teacher but tried to have a positive attitude. My partner is a friend from a past ward whom I have always seen as stalwart in her testimony of Jesus Christ. She has never attended the class. We had many discussions together prior to starting and had a meeting with a stake presidency member about some concerns and to hear his counsel: focus each lesson on Jesus Christ and love each individual.

To say there were some ladies that weren't happy with the change (two new teachers who weren't attending the class) is an understatement. My first lesson from Saints 4 was on the centennial celebration of BYU. I felt like I structured the lesson on a train pointed towards the Savior with a discussion about how following the honor code helps to create disciples of Christ. I came prepared with quotes and support of concerns that might be brought up, but I was NOT prepared for the conclusions that were drawn about the honor code. It felt like some women picked up the train, took it off the tracks, and then pointed it in the opposite direction. A main conclusion is that the honor code actually creates liars. People sign their name to obey the honor code in order to get a cheaper education. One woman came with ammunition of examples of how the honor code doesn't protect the students such as two girls who went to a party, participated in the drinking, and then one got raped. She couldn't report the raping because then she'd have to report the drinking which would mean getting kicked out of the school. Apparently students will "ward shop" to find a bishop who will be willing to write them an ecclesiastical endorsement. The environment is not good at BYU anymore and the light has gone out. At a loss of what to do, I finally sat down feeling like I had lost control of the discussion and didn't know how to get it back. The discussion took almost my whole time. My partner tried to help turn the conversation around saying that the solution seems to be that we need to educate parents not to pressure their children to attend BYU if they are not willing to abide by the honor code. When I finally moved onto the rest of my lesson about some faithful African American Saints who chose to join the church despite not being able to have the Church established in their area, I struggled to feel the Spirit and had difficulty bearing my testimony at the end. At the end of class, my co-teacher and I had a long discussion together about how the class went outside by our cars. Then I proceeded to call Matt and my mom where I broke down into tears as I recounted the events of class. I wanted to quit. I strive to fill my life with light, and I couldn't feel the Spirit during that class discussion. 

Because of how my lesson went, my co-teacher took her topic of 1978 lifting of the Priesthood ban the next week and invited very little discussion. She had beautiful thoughts from African American Saints and how they reconcile their faith today with the Priesthood ban. 

It's been a very challenging calling for me, also because I don't love history, but I'm grateful for the deeper friendship I have now with my co-teacher.

First Pickleball Tournament

Kari and I played in a pickleball tournament together! It was a fun experience and something I'm sure we will do again in the future!

Yard Goats

Matt coached Austin's baseball team for the fall. Austin pitched for the first time. Their team got 2nd place!

Fall Tennis

As a sophomore, Carter made the Varsity tennis team. He played mostly doubles for the fall season and won 80% of his matches. The match he was most proud of is beating a 7.8 UTR with his partner Jett.

I am serving on the tennis booster club again this year as VP of fundraising and Spirit Nights.

Fall Birthdays and Halloween

We celebrated this 10-year-old by opening presents in the morning with Matt on the phone. The temple was closed for cleaning, so I didn't have to worry about moving my temple shift and could just meet this boy for lunch at school. I brought him Chick Fil A, and we played a game. He wanted Matt to make his birthday dinner on the weekend--steak and chicken kebabs. Austin also got a new tennis racket from Grandma and Grandpa.

Halloween 2025

The day before Bryson's birthday, we were able to have a family day at a campground that my dad volunteers at once a week. Rope swings, zip line, fishing, paddle boarding, lunch, and some archery. I forgot to take pictures!

Bryson was thrilled to turn 13, but not happy about fasting on his birthday. We had chicken and waffles for dinner with the missionaries and Grandma and Grandpa. There was no school the next two days, so he was able to invite some friends over to watch a PG-13 movie and have ice cream sundaes.

Grandma and Grandpa got him some new batting gloves.

At their well-check appointment, we learned that Bryson has 20/70 vision in his left eye. For the first time he mentioned that he has trouble reading things from the back of the classroom! Austin is in the 5th percentile for his height, and the doctor talked to us about considering growth hormones for him. (He is projected to be 5'6".)

Life Changes for Caleb

Caleb really wanted to receive his endowment before leaving for BYU, which left 2 days to make that happen due to the timing of his birthday and his flight. With the help of our local church leadership, Caleb received the Melchizedek priesthood and his endowment on his birthday. He prepared well, and it was a special experience.

We celebrated his birthday the next day by eating dinner at Benihana.

I flew up with Caleb to drop him off at BYU, which meant I had to do a lot of adulting. 😆

We figured things out together. He is just going for a semester and then going on a mission. We submitted his mission papers right before he left. I was a little nervous to see whether Caleb would sink or swim as he would be all alone at school figuring everything out and trying to make new friends. He is staying in Helaman Halls and doesn't know his roommate. After getting him all moved in, including a few trips to some stores, we walked the campus. A kind friend from my ward has a house in Provo and let us eat dinner with them as well as letting me sleep there two nights.

 

I met up with my good friend, Kim, for lunch at Costa Vida after the temple.

The rest of the afternoon, we walked Caleb's schedule and made sure he felt all settled. I flew home Thursday morning while he started Freshman Orientation. I left a big piece of my heart behind!

One of the final things Caleb had to do submit his mission papers is have his wisdom teeth removed. No funny videos. He was very coherent after waking up from the anesthesia.

After he was all healed up a few weeks later, one side of his mouth started to get puffy again. He had a rare infection that required lancing, draining, and antibiotics.

A week after arriving at BYU, Caleb received his mission call! He opened it on his own as soon as it arrived on September 2nd. We scheduled that he would read it and share the news that night with us, but the rest of my family and his Aunt Marilyn jumped on the zoom call as well. He is going to the Dominican Republic, Spanish speaking. Home MTC starts January 26th and Mexico MTC on February 5th. We are thrilled for him!

First Day of School 2025

Austin is starting 4th grade--last year of elementary school.

Bryson is starting 7th grade in junior high.

Aspen Grove

We made the long 24-hour drive to Utah for the opportunity to experience BYU's Aspen Grove. It was so nice to escape the heat! The drive was very long, however. It was an awesome experience, and I can understand why it's so popular! We stayed busy all week, and I loved that the kids had groups they were assigned to, so the adults had an opportunity to play during the day, too!

Hiking

Family field games

Remote control car racing

The axe throwing was a lot of fun!

The ropes course wigged me out, but the rest of my family had fun on it!

Badminton tournament

Rodeo night

Cornhole competition

The food was actually pretty good. Some meals were better than others, but they did a great job.

Caleb's youth group

Carter's group

Austin and Morgan's group

Pickleball tournaments

It was such a relaxing week, and we enjoyed so much being there with friends. My biggest complaint was the rooming situation--small rooms, no place to unpack your suitcase, and sharing 1 bathroom with 6 people got really crowded. There isn't a ton of time spent in your room, though, and everything else was so fun in the most beautiful scenery.