My Boys

My Boys

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

1st Place

Carter had a single elimination soccer tournament last weekend. His team has done well all season only losing one game. 

Carter's team with their coach. I believe they started the season with 5 players.

The fields and goals are smaller, so they only play 3 on 3. Whenever it was Carter's turn to sit out, he did sit-ups, jumping jacks, and push-ups on the sidelines. It was hilarious! He wanted to stay "warmed up" while sitting out. He took these games very seriously and gave it his all!


 Although Carter is a very good player, there is one boy on his team who was the main reason their team did so well. Due to their record over the season, Carter's team only had to play twice in the tournament. The first game they won 12-0, Carter scored 4 goals. In the championship game, they won 8 to 2, Carter scored 1 goal.

Carter was so happy and wore his medal all day!

Sunday, March 13, 2016

Half Marathon No. 6


As I have done after having all my babies, I signed up for a half marathon race to force myself to bounce back quickly. 3 weeks after baby #4, I set out for an easy 1-2 mile run. I ended up running 3 miles at a 9:35 pace because I felt great! (Perk to running throughout my pregnancy) I set a goal to run my half marathon at an 8:30 pace knowing that would be stretching my capabilities since the race was 6 months post baby.

This time training, I particularly struggled with pushing myself past 3 miles; I was content to stay at that distance. As I started adding on the miles, my speed wasn't improving very much at all. 2 months out from the race, I was running 8:55 miles for my long runs. I reluctantly admitted to myself that an 8:30 pace wasn't an attainable goal and 8:45 was more realistic, though it made me really sad.

I continued to trust the training process and push myself on my speed days (Tuesdays). Week by week, I started shaving off time pretty dramatically. I was afraid to be too hopeful. 3 weeks out from the race, I ran the whole 13.1 miles to gauge how I would perform for the race and I ran it at an 8:23 pace! I hoped to perform as well or better on race day.

There is so much anxiety leading up to the race...will I eat the right food the night before that settles well? Will I experience some unexpected cramping? Will I injure myself? Will the weather be right? etc. All the stars aligned, and I was able to have a terrific run! My finishing time was 1:49:32 or an 8:21 pace. I finished #27 in my age group (30-35) and #136 overall (out of 1800 runners). My Personal Record is 1:48:05 in 2012 when I was 5 weeks pregnant with Bryson. Fastest mile was the last at 7:45 and slowest mile was 8:35.

Most annoying part of the race: My shoe came untied at mile 5, again at mile 8, and again at mile 12. I just left it untied at that point because I didn't have the energy to bend down and stand back up again!

The thing I regret most about the race: what I wore! I planned to wear shorts and a running shirt when the temperature was predicted to be 54-57 degrees. Throughout the week, the predicted temperature kept dropping. When I saw that the morning was going to start around 45 degrees, I wore long pants and a jacket that I knew I would remove. I should have stuck with my original plan and toughed out the pre-race waiting in the cold.

2 Tender Mercies: #1 Austin slept through the night for the first time the night before the race. He typically will wake up once per night around 4 am. I knew if he did that that I would have a difficult time going back to bed for an hour with pre-race jitters. At 5 am, I went up to wake him and feed him. He was laying in his bed awake playing with his stuffed giraffe! I was so grateful for the uninterrupted sleep!
#2 I didn't have to stop during the race for bathroom troubles that I typically have. When I run long distances, it just tends to get my digestive system a movin' and a groovin'!

It was so fun to see my parents at the race and have their support. They were waiting at the finish line, but I also saw them at the last half mile. I was already giving everything I had at that point in the race; when I saw them, I had the energy to give a little more! Matt + boys got there just after I crossed the finish line, but I was grateful to have them there as well.

I love running! I love the way it makes me feel, I love the challenge of pushing myself to improve, and I love seeing what the body can accomplish. What an amazing feat to be so close to my PR 6 months after having a baby!! I was super proud of what I accomplished. :)

Past races:
Half Marathon #1 (2009) 1:58:45
Half Marathon #2 (2010) 1:57:47 (8 months post baby)
Half Marathon #3 (2011) 1:52:13
Half Marathon #4 (2012) 1:48:05
Half Marathon #5 (2013) 1:54:18 (4 months post baby)
Half Marathon #6 (2016) 1:49:32 (6 months post baby)

Marathon #1 (2011) 4:28:34
Marathon #2 (2014) 3:58:08

*Just as a side-note, it is so tricky to work breastfeeding in before and after running a race!

Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Boys' Journal

Caleb: 8 years old, 3rd grade
(This picture emphasizes how small Caleb is for his age!)

He came home from school yesterday excited about his artwork that was chosen to be entered into a contest. I exclaimed, "Man, Caleb, you're good at everything you do!" He responded, "I know, my life is so easy." That pretty much sums things up for him! He seems to excel at everything he does from school to sports to piano.

Since starting school, Caleb has received all As on every report card, but this year things seem to be clicking really well. He's finally enjoying reading and it has become his favorite subject (simply because he doesn't love his math teacher this year). He hasn't made below a 97 on his report card so far this year.

Caleb is a natural athlete. He just finished up a season of basketball. Though his team struggled overall, Caleb caught on quickly and was a good asset to the team. He just started a season of baseball and though he is the youngest player on his team (8-10 year olds), he has secured a reputation for being very consistent. He misses playing soccer, since that was another sport that he shined in, but it's difficult to fit in all these sports. He gets to play soccer every day at recess with his friends at school.

The other week in school, the students voted on a boy and a girl "star student." Caleb was unanimously voted the boy star student. He is so well-behaved at school and church (not always at home...), very thoughtful and considerate of those around him.

Caleb is super competitive in everything he does! One example is that he is determined to be the top student in the school for running laps. In PE, they have a certain portion of time set aside for running laps. Most kids choose to walk, but not Caleb. He won a $5 gift card to Sonic last year for being the top student and ran an equivalent of 25 miles--almost a marathon. He thinks he is going to beat that this year.

A few weeks ago, Caleb accompanied a musical number for the first time ever. He played "I Am a Child of God" while some cousins/friends sang at Dallin's baptism. Accompanying and just playing a song are two different ballgames. He did a great job!

A funny thing about Caleb is that he is a germaphobe. If someone is sick, he gives him a wide berth and washes his hands often. He constantly asks questions such as, "If someone has asthma at school, could I catch it?" All the caution must work well because I can't remember the last time he was sick!

He is an awesome big brother and very helpful around the house. That said, he does not like helping with chores that are too dirty (bathrooms, weeding, etc.). His kind of chores are vacuuming and picking up toys.

Carter: almost 6 years old, Kindergarten

He was very mischievous when he was 3-4, so I'm pretty shocked that he has also turned into a boy who does not step one foot out of line at school and church. Though it took awhile, he now says that he likes school and seems to be excelling well.

He finally has gained the confidence to ride his bike to school. The first week of school, he accidentally crashed into someone (it gets quite congested on the sidewalks) and caused both him and that kid to fall. He refused to ride his bike to school after that until a few weeks ago. He's speedy fast on his scooter too, so he could keep up just fine.

Carter is proving to be a soccer star as well. We put him in a more competitive league this season; he is one of the youngest on his team (5-7 year olds) but holds his own just fine. He has learned to kick harder and aim well when shooting goals. He's also a good team player, passing the ball to his teammates.

I'm continuing to teach Carter piano. He's excited about it most of the time.

A problem that we have with Carter is his lying. He does not want to get in trouble for things so he will lie and say someone else did it (usually blames things on Bryson). Our house came with cameras and it took awhile for Matt to get them hooked up, but now we just say, "Alright, we're going to go look at the cameras to know what happened." Then the truth will come out. We've had so many lessons/discussions about it but it continues to be a problem.

Carter is absolutely obsessed with babies and does not understand their personal space. The first thing he does in the morning and when he gets home from school is greet baby Austin.


Bryson 3 years old


Some of Bryson's rough edges are starting to smooth out. He can be the sweetest boy and also an absolute pill. :) He is at a fun age where he is discovering new things all the time and able to communicate well.

Bryson is a Sunbeam at church this year. I was super nervous about the transition because I knew it would be hard for him to see me at the front of the Primary room. Due to a recent ward split, we started the year off with many substitutes, so I had Matt help out with Bryson's class for this adjustment. Now he is doing so well with staying in his chair though there have been a total of 3 weeks where Bryson has fallen asleep during Primary (1pm church; he still naps every few days). If he sees me in the room, he'll call out, "Hi Mommy!" He loves it when he gets a turn to come up and help with something.

As all my boys were at this age, Bryson is obsessed with Daddy. He is super sad when Matt leaves for work most days. If he wakes up in the middle of the night, he usually just wants Daddy (which I'm fine with!).

Bryson is terrified of Mommy or Daddy being angry at him. If he does something wrong, he is quick to apologize to avoid a time-out. He'll cry if he thinks we're mad at him.

Just like his older brothers, Bryson wants to take a turn practicing the piano as well. For instance, if I tell Carter it's time to practice, Bryson will jump on and insist it's his turn.

As is typical with this age I'm learning, Bryson wants to be a helper for everything! He loves to help me cook and help in the yard.

Bryson has been really stubborn about wanting help to say his prayer each day. Within the last week, he finally has declared that he can say prayers all by himself!

There have been a few instances recently where his mischief has led to potentially scary consequences. It's a testament to God's protecting hand in our lives, and I'm so grateful!

Bryson sleeps with Caleb most nights. It helps Bryson sleep through the night and it helps Caleb feel less scared himself so it's a win for everyone.




Austin 6 months
Trying rice cereal for the first time @ 5 months 

He is a Momma's boy and his eyes follow me around if I'm in the same room. Recently, if I set him down to try to do something, he all out wails. It makes my day super fun. He's also in the stage where he grabs for everything which makes doing things while holding him very tricky.

Eating food is progressively getting better. He's tried rice/oatmeal cereal, green beans, sweet potatoes, carrots, prunes, and applesauce.

He has slept through the night 3 nights in a row (knock on wood!!) going to bed around 7pm and waking up around 6am. It feels amazing to get uninterrupted sleep! That's been the hardest thing 4th time around as I get older.

Austin has just as much hair as the day he was born. I suppose it's a good thing that he has such short hair because he has a bald spot on the back of his head. We also think he's going to keep his brown eyes like Caleb and their Dad.

As the 4th child, he often has to work around our schedule of running the boys to their activities. I feel badly some days that he doesn't get the nap schedule he needs to be a happy boy.

Austin is full of smiles and laughs, and we all love him to pieces!

Sunday, February 14, 2016

Pinewood Derby

Caleb was most excited about being a Cub Scout in order to race in the Pinewood Derby. He watched his cousin take first place last year, and it was a BIG DEAL to him to do well. Matt was also very excited about his first year doing it with his son. They did a lot of research together and were both satisfied with the end product.

A few days before the race Bryson accidentally dropped the car, but Matt couldn't see any damage and the car seemed to ride the same on a slanted surface. 

Caleb named his car Lightning Widow. Each car raced 4 times on 4 different tracks. Then the times were averaged together. The first time Caleb's car raced, it seemed to get stuck at the top for a few milliseconds and then followed behind everyone else's cars. Once you submit your car though, you are unable to look at or adjust your car in anyway. So broken-hearted Caleb (and Matt!) had to watch the car perform worse and worse. Caleb's car came in 3rd to last place out of about 40 cars. He is such a competitive kid and this was devastating.

After the races were over, they were finally able to look at the car. There was a small crack next to the wheel that Matt hadn't noticed. There's a lot of speculation between Caleb and Matt about what caused what, but bottom line the wheel rubbed against the side of the car and the car didn't perform well.


Caleb still put on a brave face for a picture. He knows he pretty much can't do worse next year!
 Each child receives an award. Caleb got an award for the "Most Hands On." (He did all the painting himself.)

Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Family Pictures

My sweet family of boys



Caleb, 8 years old

Carter, 5 years old

Bryson, 3 years old


Austin, 3 months old








Kind of a fun picture!

Austin at 4 Months

Austin has caused us a lot of worry in his short life, granted these things are relatively small.

1) At his 2 week appointment, we weren't able to see his regular pediatrician. The pediatrician we saw was concerned about a bulge over his soft spot and that the fluids weren't draining correctly. We scheduled an appointment for an ultrasound. It came back normal thankfully. When we saw our regular pediatrician at the follow-up visit, she took one look at Austin and saw that he had the same "look" as Bryson--same head shape mostly. Bryson's soft spot still has not closed up which has to do with the disease Matt was born with, cleidocranial dysostosis. She had no concerns about Austin whatsoever and just said we would treat him the same as Bryson--watch him carefully and make sure he meets all his milestones. I know it's better to be safe than sorry, but if I only would have been able to see my regular pediatrician who knows my kids and their history, we could have avoided the drama that came along with that ultrasound appointment!

2) After the 2 month appointment, our (regular) pediatrician was concerned about a slight bulge on his forehead (right side). We scheduled an appointment with a neurosurgeon downtown 3 weeks later. At that appointment, the neurosurgeon said the slight bulge was due to the fact that he sleeps too much on his right side. We were assigned the task of having Austin sleep on his left side exclusively so that it could balance out. We haven't had a follow-up appointment yet to see if that has worked, but I think it's helped so far. Matt and I had not noticed that Austin tended to favor his right side when it came to sleeping; forcing Austin to sleep on the other side totally messed up his sleeping schedule which was progressing so nicely. At 3 months, Austin was mostly nursing for the last time at night around 7 to 8pm and then sleeping till 3:30am and then up for good at 6:30. Forcing him to sleep on his left side caused his sleeping schedule to revert to a newborn. I was nursing at 11pm, 2am, 5am then up at 6am to go running. (I'm training for a half marathon.) It was SO hard to go backwards. He's finally adjusted to sleeping on his left side, and we're making progress in a good direction to sleeping longer. Still not where it was though.

3) We had to do another doctor's appointment for Austin a few weeks ago because he hadn't had a BM in 9 days! Things seem to be working okay still and going longer between BM might just be his "normal."

So with all the frequent well-check appointments, we've been going to the doctor a lot for baby Austin!


Austin is now 4 months. We've been doing lots of tummy time, and he has rolled over 4 different times from his tummy to his back. I am his favorite person and sometimes nothing else will make him happy except me holding him. The kids love to make him smile. The first person Carter and Bryson want to see when they wake up in the morning is baby Austin. Caleb is the only one allowed to pick Austin up, so he's a great helper when I'm teaching piano and the baby just wants to be held by someone standing up.


Austin's 4 month measurements: 15 lb 9oz (52%), 24.5” (20%), and head circumference was off the charts but following the curve. His stats were almost spot on to Bryson’s except Bryson weighed 15 lb. 4 oz.

Monday, January 11, 2016

Another Soccer Season

Carter finished up his second season of soccer and really enjoyed it. He's not as serious about sports as Caleb, but he understands the concept of the game and goes out there and gets the job done. This season he had a few other players who could run fast like him and kick the ball but one player would kick the ball any direction he felt like and the other would do all he could to push and shove in order to get to the ball. So poor Carter was not only working against the other team to score a goal but also working against the players on his own team who would try to steal the ball from him instead of giving Carter the opportunity to pass to them. Although he would get frustrated in the moment, he's an upbeat and happy boy who was glad to play and have fun!

His soccer team

So excited about his trophy!

He just started a winter season of soccer, and we decided to try a more competitive team this time. {The cost is more than double the price of this league, which was the only hold-up from doing it sooner!}