My Boys

My Boys

Sunday, December 8, 2024

Fall Baseball

We have had a frustrating battle with the last few seasons of baseball with the same coach who kept drafting Bryson. Bryson played 4 or 5 seasons with him, and we really liked him at first, but then Bryson spent last fall (2023) season batting last the entire season. We felt it was unwarranted; Bryson was middle-of-the-pack with his batting average. Bryson got up the courage to ask the coach why one time, and the coach said he needed a strong batter at the end of the lineup. He only ever played Bryson in centerfield. We used it as an opportunity to encourage Bryson to prove himself at every practice and every game with positivity and hard work.

Prior to the spring 2024 season of baseball after the coach drafted Bryson again, I emailed him and asked if it was possible to bat Bryson anywhere other than last. I have never tried to tell a coach what to do or how to coach, but I felt like this was a special circumstance since Bryson was going through therapy at that time developing tools to deal with anger and some depression. I told the coach that Bryson's self esteem really struggled the previous season because no matter how hard he worked or how well he batted, he was still last in the lineup. The coach thanked me for the email...and then continued to bat Bryson last! That season, Bryson had the 3rd highest batting average on the team.

After that experience, Matt took matters in his own hands and coached Bryson for the fall of 2024 so that coach couldn't draft him again. Bryson batted 1st or 2nd in the lineup all season, and mostly played shortstop. It was amazing the difference that made to have a coach believe in him, and it showed in Bryson's playing. He was so confident batting or on the field and his stats improved even more. Matt even gave him the opportunity to pitch a few times.





Austin had a great season as well and improved a lot. It was his first time making a AAA team (higher level), so he had to work really hard to keep up with the other kids. The main thing was that they could mostly all throw harder than him. His team got 2nd place in the play-offs. His team had a commanding lead in the championship game, but then we ran out of our good pitchers and ended up walking in runs allowing the other team to win. :(



Matt led Bryson's team to a victory in the championship game.



Sunday, November 24, 2024

Destin Vacation

My family reunion was in Destin this year. We spent days at the beach, saw Wicked, played games/hung out at the house, played pickleball, and celebrated Thanksgiving. My kids also parasailed for the first time!

Carter and Matt did a deep sea fishing excursion










Kara generously took some family sunset pictures on the beach.








Sunday, November 3, 2024

Bryson's 12th Birthday

Bryson celebrated his 12th birthday with a few friends at Activate--an active gaming experience. They had a lot of fun, and he had a great birthday.





Favorite dinner: kebabs

Favorite dessert: s'mores bars

Favorite snack: cheez-its

Favorite color: bright orange

Favorite activity: listening to books

Favorite book: False Prince or Alex Rider series

Favorite subject: math

Favorite sport: baseball

Sunday, September 22, 2024

Family Time

As part of a ward activity, everyone attempted winning at the pie-eating contest. (Austin and I opted out.)


 

We went and saw a community theater production of Beauty and the Beast as a family. We had friends performing as Lumiere and Mrs. Potts. Caleb went with a date!

Tuesday, September 10, 2024

Austin's Birthday

 Austin's 9th birthday

Favorite dinner: Korean Beef

Favorite color: red

Favorite sport: baseball

Favorite pastime: screens or fishing

Favorite book: Inflatables or Wild Robot

Favorite song: Too Sweet

Favorite season: spring

Favorite fruit: strawberry

Saturday, September 7, 2024

Homecoming

 Caleb and his date, Chloe.









Carter went with some friends to the dance, too!